"Full of wisdom!" - John & Stasi Eldredge 

New York Times Best Selling Authors

Is there a rhythm to your life?  

There are a thousand ways we could choose to live our days. We have a thousand different voices pulling at us from a thousand different directions at all times. We all have a vision for the life we want, but until we put purpose, intentionality, and action behind that vision, we will remain stuck in the current of the world around us. We need a set of intentional rhythms to guide us toward the life and marriage we envision.


Join Chris and Jenni Graebe on a journey of learning together what it means to craft a “rule of life” both individually and together as a couple. Leave behind the busy life of chaos and hurry, and learn to move toward a meaningful life of joy and intention.



As Faith Leaders, Writers, and Hosts of The Rhythm of Us Podcast, Chris and Jenni help encourage couples to move towards the life they long for, offering fresh insights and powerful conversations on the practices that make up a life well lived.  

Together, Chris and Jenni have served as pastors in local church ministry for over 13 years, have been married 17 years and live deep in the trees of Franklin, TN with their five children and golden retriever.

John & Stasi Eldredge

Best Selling Authors of Wild at Heart, Captivating,  Love & War

"Chris and Jenni’s winsome book is chalk full of wisdom, complete with practical steps to help you find your way into the unique rhythms that will make your marriage flourish. "

John & Stasi Eldredge


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Gabe & Rebekah Lyons

Authors and host of

Rhythms For Life Podcast

In The Rhythm of Us, Chris and Jenni warmly welcome us into their home, their struggles and their committed journey to create a healthy marriage amidst the demands of life, children and never ceasing distractions. We love this book and believe it will encourage you to stay the course, get creative and find a vision of “us” that brings the best out of your marriage."

Jeannie Cunnion

 Best Selling Author of

Mom Set Free & Don't Miss Out

I absolutely love The Rhythm of Us.

It’s inspiring. It’s empowering. It’s equipping. Jenni and Chris cast a clear vision for a thriving marriage that is Biblical, beautiful, bountiful,

and because of grace,absolutely achievable. 

Written with an “us too”, not a “how to” tone, you’ll find yourself delightfully eager to create your own transforming “rhythm of us” with your spouse! 

Meshali Mitchell

World Renowned Photographer and Founder of A House God is Building

“No matter your season, married or single, this book is for you! It is a brilliant guide on creating rhythms for a healthy, life-giving marriage.

God’s desire for us is strong relationship, and this book gives amazing tools on how to cultivate, nurture and protect that.”

Jay & Katherine Wolf 

Best selling authors of

Hope Heals and Suffer Strong

"Marriage has been the source of both our deepest struggles and deepest healing. Chris and Jenni offer their own hard won wisdom reminding us our good/hard relationships are so worth fighting for."

Melanie Shankle 

NYT Best Selling Author 

"In The Rhythm of Us, Jenni and Chris Graebe have truly written what I believe is one of the greatest books on marriage I have read. It's honest and real, full of practical tips and exercises that will help strengthen your marriage and help you and your spouse grow closer as you learn how to find your rhythm as a couple. You will be challenged and encouraged as you turn each page of this book and end it feeling like you've just made a wise new couple friend who you can't wait to have over for dinner." 

Christy Nockles

Worship Leader, Songwriter, 

Author of The Life You Long For

"This isn’t just another book to read on the subject of marriage. The Rhythm of Us is an invitation—or maybe the word is an activation—of the thriving marriage you long for. Chris and Jenni have placed some incredibly powerful tools in the hands of the reader, life-saving questions, practices and rhythms that will have you dreaming again in terms of the marriage you desire and what it looks like to pursue that dream in the here and now!"

Kay Wyma

Blogger, Vodcaster, and Author of

The Peace Project

Jenni & Chris welcome us into real life relationship,

opening the conversation to everyone from both a his and hers, as well as an us perspective. This isn't a do-this-an-get-that handbook, but an invitation to learn about, practice and lean into relationship rhythms that are as powerful

as they are gentle.

The Rhythms of Us addresses marriage, but honestly, it offers insight and tips beneficial to all our relationships.

Mark & Jan Foreman

Pastors and  Best Selling

Authors of Never Say No

The Rhythm of Us comes through a distinct door that separates it from most writings on marriage.

It’s not only biblical and honest but it is actually doable.

The Rhythm of Us gives us practical handles to grab onto, to see our marriages transformed.

These pages create what the Graebe’s call “Team Us,” igniting the next exciting chapter of any marriage. 

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Jay & Katherine Wolf

Katherine & Jay Wolf, authors of  Hope Heals and Suffer Strong

"Marriage has been the source of both our deepest struggles and deepest healing. Chris and Jenni offer their own hard won wisdom reminding us our good/hard relationships are so worth fighting for."

Andrew & Shawn Johnson East

NFL Player and Olympic Gymnast

"Chris and Jenni have written

a must-read for any married couple.

The Rhythm of Us gives a practical

road map for a thriving marriage.

We loved it!” 

Angie Smith

NYT Best Selling Author

It only takes a few minutes to realize that Jenni and Chris have a special relationship, and their advice and intentionality are a gift to other marriages.

We are all trying to figure out how to settle into a rhythm that allows us to thrive as individuals, spouses, and families-and this is a resource that will be invaluable as we all navigate the days and years to come. I’m so grateful for a resource that I can confidently pass along to others knowing that

it will quickly become a favorite!

Alli Worthington

Business Coach, Speaker, and Author of Standing Strong 

No matter where you are or what

you’ve gone through, The Rhythm of Us

can help you make a good thing great,

or help raise a struggling relationship

up into a healthier rhythm. 

A must read for any couple!”

Courtney DeFeo

Best Selling Author of

In This House We Will Giggle & Treasured

“I have always admired Chris and Jenni and their obvious connection. After reading this book,

I understand why they are one special couple.

They live out a rhythm that is undeniable!

It’s a must-read for any couple that is seeking a great marriage.”


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